Think your partner is keeping company other than you? For
whatever reasons you may think this, make sure they are valid and solid
reasons. There's nothing worse than making a fool out of yourself and
losing someone because of your unfounded suspicions.
First ask yourself these questions:
The first place to turn to is the internet. Oh yes, I'm talking about social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace. If you're hoping to find strong, incriminating evidence, look no further than sites like these which allow members to upload photos, post comments, and share their lives with a large group of "friends." The best part? They let you browse anonymously.
Facebook makes it easy to see if your partner has been unfaithful via wall posts by letting you see a "wall-to-wall" between mutual friends. There are also photo albums, which are readily available for viewing - if you're not blocked that is. MySpace is basically the same thing, but with more flashy graphics. Of course, your partner might have mastered the art of untagging themselves or making their photos completely private. If that's the case, the only way you would be able to see those photos is if you're logged into their account. There's no way to justify hacking into your partner's account, so I don't recommend trying it.
The next best thing would be getting a hold of something personal, like a journal or cell phone. Although, this may prove to be a more daunting task, it is not impossible. Since raiding a journal may be deemed too much of an invasion of privacy, let's try the cell phone.
The best way to accomplish this task without being too obvious is to make sure your partner's phone is away from them and closer to you. This way, should they receive a call or message, you can be the first to answer it.
Now, for this, you will need two loyal friends who have each other's phone numbers and one that has your partner's phone number. Once the phone-to-partner proximity is right, text Friend A an inconspicuous message which will be their signal to text Friend B an equally inconspicuous message. It is now Friend B's job to text a question to your partner. Make sure the question is something that you can answer for your partner; for example: "Are you and blah (this being you) going out to eat later?" Casually pick up the phone and read aloud the text and who it is from. Tell your partner that you will answer it for them. After you quickly respond to the text, smoothly begin rifling through their other texts and look for anything that might confirm your beliefs.
If you're still convinced that your partner is cheating on you, simply ask them. It sounds crazy, I know, but you can tell a lot from facial expressions.
Signs to look for:
First ask yourself these questions:
- Does your partner have a cheating history?
- Have they randomly accused you of cheating?
- Are they more withdrawn?
- Have they become more protective of their phone/computer?
The first place to turn to is the internet. Oh yes, I'm talking about social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace. If you're hoping to find strong, incriminating evidence, look no further than sites like these which allow members to upload photos, post comments, and share their lives with a large group of "friends." The best part? They let you browse anonymously.
Facebook makes it easy to see if your partner has been unfaithful via wall posts by letting you see a "wall-to-wall" between mutual friends. There are also photo albums, which are readily available for viewing - if you're not blocked that is. MySpace is basically the same thing, but with more flashy graphics. Of course, your partner might have mastered the art of untagging themselves or making their photos completely private. If that's the case, the only way you would be able to see those photos is if you're logged into their account. There's no way to justify hacking into your partner's account, so I don't recommend trying it.
The next best thing would be getting a hold of something personal, like a journal or cell phone. Although, this may prove to be a more daunting task, it is not impossible. Since raiding a journal may be deemed too much of an invasion of privacy, let's try the cell phone.
The best way to accomplish this task without being too obvious is to make sure your partner's phone is away from them and closer to you. This way, should they receive a call or message, you can be the first to answer it.
Now, for this, you will need two loyal friends who have each other's phone numbers and one that has your partner's phone number. Once the phone-to-partner proximity is right, text Friend A an inconspicuous message which will be their signal to text Friend B an equally inconspicuous message. It is now Friend B's job to text a question to your partner. Make sure the question is something that you can answer for your partner; for example: "Are you and blah (this being you) going out to eat later?" Casually pick up the phone and read aloud the text and who it is from. Tell your partner that you will answer it for them. After you quickly respond to the text, smoothly begin rifling through their other texts and look for anything that might confirm your beliefs.
If you're still convinced that your partner is cheating on you, simply ask them. It sounds crazy, I know, but you can tell a lot from facial expressions.
Signs to look for:
- Lack of eye contact
- Dilated pupils
- Fidgeting
- Sweating
- Inconsistencies in their story
- Rise in voice pitch
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