There's no way to fathom the intensity of pain that a man feels
because they're built to not show any emotions. Hurting your man and
wanting him back can be a confusing thing for him. But if you're bent on
getting him back and make him forget about what's been done, then learn
to do these 7 advices:
Swallow your pride and apologize.
The very first step to being given a second chance with your man is to swallow any pride that you have left and to be remorseful of your actions. There's no point in justifying your actions now. At least let him see the regret in your eyes and he might be able to forgive you.
This is the right time to be patient.
You have no right - at all - to impose anything on your man at this point. First, you got him hurt. Also, forcing him to warm up to you just isn't right. Just be pacified in the fact that time heals all wounds so the best thing to do now is to wait.
Try wearing his shoes.
Try to look at the situation through his eyes. Would you have liked the pain? Instead of whining that he still can't find it in his heart to forgive you, why don't you tell him instead that you understand what he's going through.
Remind him of the good memories that you've built together.
Reminisce all the wonderful moments that you've spent as a couple. If you could revisit those times just to make him feel that he's still very much loved and wanted, then do so. Share the sweetest moments with him all over again.
It's time to pay back.
You've taken a big chunk out of his heart so it's time to make recompense. Give him all the gifts that he's been dreaming to have, make love to him in all earnestness (if he still wants to go to bed with you), send him thank you and I'm sorry cards. Through these things, you can slowly win him back once more.
Double your effort in making the relationship work.
Your goal is to make him warm up to you once again this is why you should work extra hard this time. Make this guy realize your commitment and he will surely want to go back into your arms once more.
Never return to your old ways.
So what caused the pain? Another man? Then let go of that other guy. You can't have them both. If you've chosen your boyfriend then keep him. Show full fidelity this time so that you could still earn your boyfriend's trust.
Swallow your pride and apologize.
The very first step to being given a second chance with your man is to swallow any pride that you have left and to be remorseful of your actions. There's no point in justifying your actions now. At least let him see the regret in your eyes and he might be able to forgive you.
This is the right time to be patient.
You have no right - at all - to impose anything on your man at this point. First, you got him hurt. Also, forcing him to warm up to you just isn't right. Just be pacified in the fact that time heals all wounds so the best thing to do now is to wait.
Try wearing his shoes.
Try to look at the situation through his eyes. Would you have liked the pain? Instead of whining that he still can't find it in his heart to forgive you, why don't you tell him instead that you understand what he's going through.
Remind him of the good memories that you've built together.
Reminisce all the wonderful moments that you've spent as a couple. If you could revisit those times just to make him feel that he's still very much loved and wanted, then do so. Share the sweetest moments with him all over again.
It's time to pay back.
You've taken a big chunk out of his heart so it's time to make recompense. Give him all the gifts that he's been dreaming to have, make love to him in all earnestness (if he still wants to go to bed with you), send him thank you and I'm sorry cards. Through these things, you can slowly win him back once more.
Double your effort in making the relationship work.
Your goal is to make him warm up to you once again this is why you should work extra hard this time. Make this guy realize your commitment and he will surely want to go back into your arms once more.
Never return to your old ways.
So what caused the pain? Another man? Then let go of that other guy. You can't have them both. If you've chosen your boyfriend then keep him. Show full fidelity this time so that you could still earn your boyfriend's trust.
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